January’s Goals ~ 3 in 30

Posted on : 11-01-2012 | By : Amber | In : Womanhood and Wifery

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3in30 e1304446364370 Januarys Goals ~ 3 in 30 I really need to get back into the habit of using the 3 in 30 challenge to focus on specific tasks and get things done around here. Habits, projects, you name it. I decided I was going to do this again and even though I haven’t gotten around to write a post about it before now, I’ve already been working on some habits for this month.

What I’m saying is.. I intended to write this post at the first of the year and get right down to business working on my goals.

And then I got sick. Actually I got sick even before the new year began. New Year’s Eve eve found me holding my head in the fetal position while dosing up on allergy meds and decongestants. Apparently cedar pollen is going crazy here and my sinuses were screaming in opposition. I didn’t need weather.com to ME there was something in the air…

But despite the assault on my senses, I managed to pick out three goals for January and actually start working on them a little.

The first one is a “gimme.” Kind of a cheater, I think. But it’s a legitimate goal.

1.) Bring back all the habits that have gone before…

There were several habits we worked on and added into our routine during the year last year that for one reason or another fell by the wayside. I like to blame the holidays. Okay sure, some of them may have disappeared before then, but can I pretend it was just the holidays? Blaming aside, they need to come back. WE need them to come back. So this month I’m gathering the good, harnessing the helpful, rallying the routine. My first goal/habit this month is getting up by 7:30, getting in some quiet morning time and bible study, and starting our bedtime routine at 7:30 to get the kids in bed by 8:30 for a story.

2.)  A new format for an old habit…

Morning family devotions is something we’ve been working on for a while. Last year we tried devotionals individually at the same time. This year we’re using The Jesus Calling Devotional for Kids and the Gospel Story Bible (along with some journals) and doing it together. Right now our morning routine is shot, ruined by too much holiday time and too much tv. My goal for this month is to cut off our morning tv time, and develop a daily morning family devotional time.

3.) A little self maintenance PLEASE?

Okay, I’ve NEVER really been very good at washing my face every night before I go to bed or using moisturizer each day (let alone anything with sunblock in it.) I’ll do great at keeping my nails trimmed for a while and then realize they’re terrible. One of my goals for 2012 is to take better care of myself and that starts with the small stuff, right? This month I’m starting small. Yes, I’m also trying to drink more water and make some diet changes but that’s outside of this goal. This goal is all about self-maintenance. One thing I decided to do to make that easier was put everything in one place. DUH, RIGHT? So this week I reorganized the medicine cabinet in the bathroom, removed some less used items to under the sink and made sure all of my regular items are together.  Hopefully keeping these things all together in one place will help a little bit — when I’m in the cabinet for my deodorant, which I DON’T forget, I’ll see the moisturizer and remember it. Sounds good in theory right? So the first part of this goal was to set up the medicine cabinet – Done. The 2nd part is to USE it and develop a better daily (or weekly for nails, etc.) habit of taking care of myself, starting with the small things. Little things matter, too.

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So those are my 3 goals for this month. And even though I’m only just now getting the post up I have been trying to work on them already. Can you believe we’re already a 3rd of the way through January?! Yep! So I’ll check back in at the end of the month and let you know how it went! What about you — working on any goals this month? Or new year’s resolutions or something?

Check out the 3 in 30 Challenge here.

Looking Ahead to 2012

Posted on : 03-01-2012 | By : Amber | In : Daily Me

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Ah, yes, it’s that time again. Time for resolutions. Or in my case, a self-evaluation and a new list of habits and goals to work on. And when I say “list” of course I mean “LIST.” Or “really-long-and-incredibly-ambitious-list.” Because as I mentioned last year I’m pretty good at making lists. And the way I see it, when you’re good at something you should stick with it, right? ; )

I can’t believe a whole year has passed already since I made the last big list. I ran out of time for some of them but overall I did pretty well, I think. I’m going to leave the 2011 List page up for another week or so and then I’m going to take it down and replace it with the 2012 List. If you’re curious, hop on over there real quick and check out the kinds of things I did (and didn’t do) in 2011. Some of my favorites were:

  • Establishing a morning routine. I learned that the secret to getting up early is to JUST DO IT. Just make yourself get out of bed. Even if you end up falling asleep in your chair 15 minutes later that’s the way to start. I also learned that the way to become a morning person and enjoy the morning is to get up A REALLY LONG TIME before the kids do so that you’re all the way awake, coffeed up, and prayed up when they start getting up and needing things from you. ; )
  • Developing a bed time/story time routine. OH MY GOODNESS, Y’ALL. It’s amazing how beneficial a good bedtime routine can be. For a long while this year we had the Best. Bedtime Routine. Ever. We got out of the habit for reasons not worth mentioning but we’re getting back into it now, because through doing that we learned how helpful and good it is for our family.
  • Finding a good church for us and going to church with James.
  • Painting.
  • Canning.
  • Reading more books. (On my Kindle, too! Woohoo!)
So what’s on the To Do list for this year? Well, a little more of the same, and some new things, too. When I wrote out habits that I want to work on and goals I want to accomplish I sat down and thought through each area of my life. My word for this year being “Transformation,” I want to let God’s Word transform my heart and mind and change me from the inside out. I also want to get serious about taking care of myself and getting healthy, too. This was my main focus as I set about making my 2012 List:
  1. Bring back the good habits we did for a while and got out of. (Right now we’re pretty much out of habit on everything. Silly holidays.) My morning quiet time, our morning routine, 20 Minute Clean-Ups, bedtime/storytime routine.
  2. Finish reading the bible all the way through.
  3. Finish reading ALL THE BOOKS I started reading and then put down in 2011. I’m sure there’s at least 6, maybe more. I’ll make a list.
  4. Memorize at least 30 new bible verses.
  5. Fill up my prayer and thankful journals and have to buy new ones.
  6. Daily track my food/calories with FatSecret (I behave better when I have to write my food down.)
  7. Add increasing amount of exercise to my day (nothing concrete yet, I need a plan.)
  8. Lose enough weight to be able to wear my wedding ring comfortably again. Followed by “Lose at least 50 pounds.” Yup, I said it. I went there.
  9. Get dental insurance or discount card and start working on repairing my teeth.
  10. Start a Date Night tradition? Every other month to start? (Ok, this is MY idea, have to run that by Hubs, unless I want to go off on dates by myself.. hm…that could work, too..) =p
  11. Start a small garden in the Spring.
  12. Grow and can our own tomato products from start to finish.
  13. Fix up a better place for chickens and get more chickens in the Spring.
  14. Turn our family centered Sunday evenings into more intentional Family Game/Movie nights.
  15. MOVE out of this house! (On the list again!) Once we move, have friends and family over regularly.
  16. (After we get out of this house and into the bigger one, build – with help – a custom “large family” dining table and benches.)
  17. Travel to TN to visit family (and while there visit/meet Jeni!)
  18. Practice guitar and learn, feel comfortable with, 3 new chords.
  19. Repeat – Finish taxes before April 1st, preferably before the end of February!
  20. Repeat – Take some nice family photos, it’s been too long.
  21. Repeat – Organize and USE the home management binder OR retire and repurpose it. …………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….. And things left over from the 2011 list:
  22. Organize digital photos, choose some to print and hang or scrapbook.
  23. Organize printed photos and make at least one scrapbook (I already have the scrapbook!)
  24. Hang chosen photos and expand my photo collage on the wall.
  25. Finish writing/filing recipes into new recipe binder.
  26. Fix Princess’ blog so that she can access it again and blog again.
Not as long a list as last time but that’s just as well, some of these are going to take lots of work!  I have a lot of changing to do. My word for the year and the picture I posted with it came out of my desire for where I want to go in 2012. I want God to change my heart, my habits, and make me a better wife/mom/person, for His glory. But *I* can’t do it, I need *HIM* to help me get it done.
What do YOU hope for 2012? Where do you want to see yourself at the end of the next 12 months?